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You will be one of these
discerning minds. As you can see from the seven listed items,
relationship does have a life. Relationship has a life of its own apart
from the lives of the two individuals that formed it.
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Tuesday 31 July 2012
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One of the Best Kept
Secrets In the World—How to Find the Right Guy Ordinary Ladies Do This Every Day—Big Time It’s no longer rocket science as some would have us believe. How to find and know the right man—the guy of your dream. It can be as easy as ABC. Yes, if you knew what to do, what to say, where and when. Finding useful information about relationships, specifically, how to get the man of your dream is not a matter of trial and error. Many discerning ladies, in an attempt to find the right guy, for instance, tend to know when the relationship is:
You will be one of these
discerning minds. As you can see from the seven listed items,
relationship does have a life. Relationship has a life of its own apart
from the lives of the two individuals that formed it.
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Saturday 16 June 2012
The God of Relationship
It is
interesting that after God created the first man, the Bible began with
relationship. It demonstrated that God
is a God of relationship. As a result He
loves relationship as well as fellowship.
God looks
for relationship and fellowship. He
loves relationship and yearns for it. His actions are mostly seen and
understood through the eyes of relationship.
Notice how he related with humanity through Adam. Gen 3:8. Note how He connected with the human race
through Noah. Gen 6:13.Also then how He interconnected
with the entire humankind through Abraham. Gen 12;3.
This is because
in relationship and fellowship, God finds fulfillment. It is in relationship, He finds satisfaction. And it is in relationship He finds a sense of
accomplishment.
It is
therefore little wonder that, humans not unlike God, craves relationship and
fellowship. Both relationship and fellowship are at the heart of every human
interaction in life. The reason none has
been found to live alone and desire to continue to do so.
Incidentally,
companionship with humankind is the fundamental essence of relationship and
fellowship with God and among humankind.
The plants
and animals God created were very good on inspection. But God did not enjoy mutual relationship with
the plants and animals. And so, he
created Adam--a human person with whom He can relate.
With the
creation of a human person, whom He created after “his own image and likeness”,
God found relationship which He could not find anywhere else, not in Angels and
Spirits.
So, we have
relationship woven through the lines of the first book of the Bible. And this is the common thread that runs
through the entire books of the Holy Scriptures.
In other
words, before human persons ever thought about coming together in relationship
with themselves and with their God, God did.
God was the first to bend
backwards to do so.
So the issue
of relationship has, from the beginning of creation, ever been with us. From there
grew the love relationship, marriage
relationship, family relationship and its various branches. Nations are now seeing the need for good
cordial relationship between each other and among themselves.
There’s a
crying need for human bonding wherever we turn.
There is
power in human bonding. Few things are
like it. God knew it. Mt 18:19. Humans also knew it. It is when humans bond in unity that
“mountains” move. Humans took advantage of it when they built the first ever
skyscraper as we see in Gen 11. The business-world now talks gladly about
synergy. It’s all about the power and
clout of human interconnectedness and bonding.
People are
now realizing by the day that ‘I cannot do it alone’, ‘you cannot do it alone’. What’s the bottom line? We need each other. We need each other to survive--literally. We need each other to “succeed”. We need each other to make it. And we need each other to make things really
happen.
Only
cordial, pleasant and satisfying relationships can make that possible.
It was in
pursuance of relationship that Eve was created--for Adam. At creation, the animals fulfilled their
roles in the life of Adam. They kept
good companies with Adam. They kept the environment
of the Garden of Eden lively. But God
did not see any of these animals as “suitable” companions for Adam. As a result, God saw the need for the
creation of another human species. Thus
we see that the concept of relationship was at the core of Eve’s creation for
Adam.
Over the
ages we have seen how human civilization has introduced unthinkable complexity into
this relationship.
The bad news
is that these complexities have unleashed avoidable pain upon innocent lives,
simply because they entered into a relationship. The good news is that humans themselves have
been able to manage, to an astonishing extent, the various situations with incredible
ability.
We have in
mind here, the love relationship. How can we or how do we improve our love
relationships?
People go
into relationship for different reasons. Some of these reasons may be more than
one, two or three. Some people bring these
expectations with them into the relationship which could become a burden to the
relationship. These expectations could
be one-sided and seek to gratify only one partner in the relationship. if such expectations do not benefit the two
parties in the relationship, those expectations are self-centered and could
have the potential of weighing down the relationship or slow down its growth.
This
shouldn’t be so. An expectation should
be of mutual benefit to foster the health
and wellbeing of a relationship. That is when such expectations could be
judged realistic.
(To be continued)
Thursday 31 May 2012
Relationship Connection: Weekly e-Letter
Vol.1 No.1 June 2-9, 2012
Relationship Viewpoint
Dear Treasured Reader,
This is our maiden issue of the Relationship Viewpoint. We’re happy to announce its debut on the electronic newsstand.
Our mission is to lend our voice to the myriad of voices on relationship all across the globe. But very importantly we’ll not be thoughtless with our views. Although our views will be colored by Christian principles, we also recognize those of our brothers and sisters on the side. Christ died for them too. For God so loved the world (emphasis mine) that He gave His only begotten Son that whoever believeth in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life. John 3:16.
He also loved the world so much that He placed in it.
We are privileged to live in the world. And we are privileged to be part of what God is doing in our time and age.
As part of what God is doing in our time is to bring men and women together. Together as a united human family and together as husbands and wives. We want to be part of that ‘huge’ worthwhile project for humanity.
The issue of single ladies is of particular concern and we’ll be handling that situation especially among other things.
We may all agree that human relationship is complex. How complex? We will take a look at the nature of complexity and try to understand and untangle it in subsequent posts and newsletters.
We wish you a happy weekday…..
Monday 28 May 2012
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Vol.1 No.1
May 27- June 2, 2012
Relationship Viewpoint
Dear Treasured Reader,
This is our maiden issue of the Relationship Viewpoint. We’re happy to announce its debut on the
electronic newsstand.
Our mission is to lend our voice
to the myriad of voices on relationship all across the globe. But very importantly we’ll not be thoughtless
with our views. Although our views will
be colored by Christian principles, we also recognize those of our brothers and
sisters on the side. Christ died for
them too. For God so loved the world
(emphasis mine) that He gave His only begotten Son that whoever believeth in
Him shall not perish but have everlasting life.
John 3:16.
He also loved the world so much
that He placed us in it. We are privileged to live in the
world. And we are privileged to be part
of what God is doing in our time and age.
As part of what God is doing in
our time is to bring men and women together.
Together as a united human family and together as husbands and wives. We want to be part of that ‘huge’ worthwhile
project for humanity.
The issue of single ladies is of particular
concern and we’ll be handling that situation especially among other things.
We may all agree that human
relationship is complex. How
complex? We will take a look at the
nature of complexity and try to understand and untangle it in subsequent posts
and newsletters.
Wishing you happy weekdays…..
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